One can’t control what others do, but they can control how and what they choose to respond to. Recognizing what you have control over and what you don’t is an investment towards accepting reality. Emotional Intelligence increases one’s ability to recognize all variables relevant to future outcomes, thus increasing one’s influential power for accomplishing goals.
Here is an Echinacea Purpurea White Swan Coneflower to view while you consider how you perceive and feel about the variables in your life. Seeing things for what they really are first, before feeling an emotion, promotes a balanced temperament. This is a skill of which requires higher thought processing. Because, the more emotions one understands, the more control one has over choosing one to feel.
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